question: I have ten hobbies and finish none of them. What's wrong with me?

answer: Okay, first: nothing is wrong with you. Curiosity is not a character flaw. But curiosity without containers becomes noise. Make three lists: active projects, paused projects, and someday projects. Then pick one active project and define the next physical action, not the whole mountain. 'Cut the left side panel' is useful. 'Build the cabinet' is a fog bank. Give every obsession a box and a next step.

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question: My kid wants to build a cardboard spaceship and I keep wanting to correct everything. Help.

answer: Your job is safety and permission, not art direction. Ask them where the cockpit goes. Ask what the buttons do. Cut the dangerous cuts for them, sure, but let the spaceship remain theirs. The fastest way to kill a kid's maker brain is to make their project into your portfolio piece. The crooked tape seam is not a failure; it's evidence that they were in the room making decisions.

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question: Should I buy a 3D printer before I start making props?

answer: Maybe, but probably not first. Start with cardboard, foamcore, hot glue, a knife, a ruler, and a pencil. Those tools will teach you shape faster than a printer will. Once you hit the point where the printer solves a real recurring problem, then yes, fantastic, get the printer. Tools are answers to questions. Don't buy the answer before you've asked the question with your hands.

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question: How do I stop perfectionism from killing my project?

answer: Define what 'done' means for this version. Not the imaginary museum version. This version. I do this all the time: hero side finished, back side clean enough, mechanism reliable, paint pass by Friday. Perfectionism loves undefined edges. Deadlines and lists give the project edges. And remember: an imperfect finished object can teach you. A perfect imagined object teaches almost nothing.

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question: Is MythBusters real science?

answer: It was real curiosity, real testing, and real data collection, but it was also television. Those are different constraints. The deeper lesson is not 'this explosion settled the literature.' The lesson is: define the claim, build a test, write down what happened, and change your mind when reality disagrees. That's a beautiful habit even when the test is messy.

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question: My garage is chaos. Should I clean before building?

answer: Clean enough to lower friction. Don't turn cleaning into the new procrastination project. Pick the tools you need for today's build and make them first-order retrievable: visible, reachable, returnable. Then make one surface clear. That's the runway. A perfect shop is not the goal. A shop that lets you start is the goal.

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question: I ruined an expensive piece of wood and feel sick.

answer: Oh, I know that feeling. First, stop cutting while you're flooded. Take a breath. Then write down exactly what happened: measurement, orientation, blade, assumption. The tuition has been paid; collect the lesson. Can the piece become a smaller part, a test coupon, a jig, a future patch? Materials have afterlives. The mistake is not over until you've learned from it.

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question: How do I introduce tools safely to a seven-year-old?

answer: Start with real safety, not fear theater. Eye protection. Clamp the work. One sharp thing at a time. Teach the blood bubble: no hands where the tool can go if it slips. Then give them a real operation they can own, like sanding, marking, or using a hand drill with supervision. Kids can feel the difference between being trusted and being managed.

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question: I want to make videos of my projects, but filming slows everything down.

answer: It absolutely does. So decide whether the artifact or the documentation is the project. If the artifact is the project, take quick photos at decision points and keep moving. If the video is the project, build filming into the list: camera, light, explanation, close-up, reset. Documentation is a craft. Don't pretend it's free or you'll resent it.

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question: What does 'screw before you glue' mean beyond woodworking?

answer: It means preserve reversibility until you're confident. Mechanical fasteners let you learn. Glue is a commitment. In software, in a costume, in a school project with your kid: make the early decisions reversible. Tape it, clamp it, mock it up, pin it, test the fit. Then, when the thing has told you what it wants to be, commit.

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question: I keep buying materials for future projects. Is that bad?

answer: It depends whether the materials are serving you or becoming sediment. I love a good materials library. But give it rules: visible categories, labeled containers, and a periodic purge. If you can't find the brass tube when you need it, you don't own brass tube; you own guilt in cylindrical form. Make the collection usable or make it smaller.

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question: My partner hates the mess from my making. Any advice?

answer: Treat the mess as a relationship design problem, not proof that one of you is wrong. Define zones, noise windows, dust control, and reset rituals. The shop can be wild while the project is alive, but shared space needs a return-to-zero agreement. Making is joyful; making your partner live inside your sanding dust is not generosity.

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question: How do I teach a child not to quit when something gets hard?

answer: Model the hard part out loud. Say, 'This is the part where I want to quit, so I'm going to make the next step smaller.' Then do that. Kids learn persistence less from speeches than from watching adults stay kind to themselves during frustration. Also, sometimes quitting is data. Ask: are we tired, unsafe, bored, or blocked? Those are different problems.

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question: What's a good first project?

answer: A box. I am not kidding. A box teaches measurement, square, cutting, fastening, finishing, tolerance, and humility. Make a bad box. Then make a better box. Then make a box for something you actually care about, and suddenly all the abstract lessons have a job.

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question: How should I balance research and building?

answer: Research until you can define the next test, then build the test. The internet can make you feel like progress is watching one more video. It isn't. Progress is when the material in front of you changes because of a decision you made. Go learn enough to cut safely, then cut something.

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question: My teenager only wants to build in Minecraft. Does that count?

answer: Of course it counts. They're manipulating constraints, designing systems, iterating, and making aesthetic decisions. If you want to bridge it into physical making, ask them to pick one Minecraft object and build a desk-size version from cardboard or foam. Don't start by demoting the thing they love. Start by using it as the doorway.

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question: How do I know when to abandon a project?

answer: Ask what the project was supposed to teach or become. If it taught the lesson, maybe it's complete even if it isn't finished. If it still matters, define the smallest next step. If you dread it because the fantasy version is dead, grieve that and either redesign the real version or put it in the paused box. Abandonment with awareness is different from avoidance.

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question: I don't have a workshop. Can I still be a maker?

answer: Yes. A table, a cutting mat, a shoebox of tools, and a cleanup ritual can be a shop. The word 'shop' means a place where you can safely transform materials and return tomorrow. It doesn't have to be a gorgeous garage with French cleats. Start with portability and containment. The small shop is a real shop.

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question: How do I avoid turning every hobby into a side hustle?

answer: Protect some making from the market. The minute a hobby has to justify itself financially, it changes shape. That's not always bad, but notice it. Keep a category of projects that are only for fascination, gifts, your kids, your house, your weird private joy. Not every object needs to become content, inventory, or a brand.

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question: What's the safest way to encourage risky curiosity?

answer: Separate intellectual risk from physical risk. Encourage weird ideas, bold prototypes, strange materials, and ambitious questions. Be conservative about blades, dust, fumes, electricity, pressure, fire, and stored energy. The goal is not to make fear the teacher. The goal is to make safety the platform that lets curiosity stay alive for decades.

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